We were talking with our kids the other day about money and mindset. We are pretty open with our kids about life (age appropriate of course). We make plans and discuss our goals with them present so they can see how to work together in marriage.
When we were in less than ideal jobs, we learned lessons we could use later on. We read books, listened to messages, and spoke with people who were either where we wanted to be or going that direction.
We let our kids know how we struggled for some time financially. There were times when the paycheck was spent before it was in hand. I remember walking into the store with $20 to buy groceries, diapers and formula for the week. We have had to swallow our pride and ask for help at times.
We explained how the right mindset is vitally important. I told them, “We have been BROKE, but we have never been POOR.” Broke is a financial situation. Poor, is a mindset about life. One can have no material possessions with the right mentality and come out on top.
We put our faith in Christ and put our hands to work. We learned patience with hope. When life didn’t look like it was going to be okay, we stood on our faith, believing and working like God’s Word is true. It isn’t easy, but it’s the truth. (See 1 Corinthians 15:10)
I have seen financial miracles in our life. I’ve seen dollars stretch to cover more than they should have by my math. We have been blessed by generous people when we were struggling. I am thankful for those times. I am also thankful for what we learned.
Here are a few lessons we learned along the way. No one owes us anything simply because we exist. Personal finances are our personal responsibility. Our choices lead us in or out of prosperity. Work is a good thing. Sometimes we have to go outside of the box (8-5 job) to make it work. Be generous at every stage. Aim for the pinnacle, even if you’re in the valley.
Our kids are watching what we do. Seek Wisdom. Learn, learn, learn. Communicate with each other. Work together. Perhaps, they won’t have to endure the same hardships we put ourselves through.
DAN TURNER JR. 